The process of planning the perfect
wedding is also a time when you have to consider certain issues which
are significant to the total success of your big day. Remember, money
matter is serious matter especially when you have a limited budget.
Many couples take these for granted and
become sentimental and unrealistic in their pursuit of their wedding
aspirations. In every culture, wedding ceremonies take its place as a
norm that joins the man and woman together as one. In Nigeria, the
ceremonies are in various segments which differs from tribe to tribe and
the costs can also mount up too.
Western influence
The traditional marriage takes its place
as an important ceremony in the Nigerian wedding ritual. It was the
only rite which was observed and acknowledged by elders and family
members to join a couple together before the western way of marriage
became very popular here.
Today prospective couples are under
immerse pressure from the wedding industry façade packed with all the
glitz, blings and glamour for brides and grooms who want a truly
unforgettable wedding experience.
While the affluent couples live the
dream, especially if their parents are picking up the bills, the
unrealistic copycats incur unnecessary debt afterwards and spend the
first few years of their marriage paying off debt.
One day affair
The traditional and religious weddings
are both imperative in sustaining a couple’s beliefs and values.
However, finding a method which works for you and your budget without
over stretching your selves or putting family members under pressure to
contribute towards your excesses is the key to getting the balance
right. More couples are choosing to have their traditional and wedding
ceremonies on the same day, either to cut cost or perhaps to get it over
and done with while they move on to start their beautiful lives
together.
One day event is definitely a great
money saving option considering the high cost of venues, catering,
drinks, venue décor and photography. So why spend twice when you can
spend once and save the rest for the raining day.
The traditional marriage comes with all
its hullabaloos. Great if you can afford to entertain your guests
throughout the whole experience but the alternative is to streamline the
ceremony and stage a two hours event at the venue you hired on the
wedding day or at your house, witnessed by your nearest and dearest only
on the morning of your wedding before the other ceremony. This is how to spend wisely! Remember, people only show they care when things are rosy but care less during difficult moments. Don't impress people and depress yourselves, the real marriage begins after the wedding ceremony.
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